Miss yesterday’s post? Read part of McKennaugh’s story here –> Loving Katia (part 1).
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My prayers were answered when, after months of advocating, Katia’s story finally fell into the right hands. The Russell family read a poem that I had written about her in an Above Rubies e-zine and contacted me for more information. I sent them a long email about a child thousands of miles away with medical complications that I couldn’t even pronounce. They prayed. God answered. And the Russells started the year long process of adopting Katia. There were home studies and paperwork, dossiers and passports and fundraisng. When at last they got to Ukraine, they found Katia in an even worse condition. She was seven now. She was still fifteen pounds. After each visit they had with her, the Russells wondered if there would be another. Katia lay in her crib, seizing. But she lived. She was the weakest person that I have ever met but, somehow, she was by far the strongest, too.
Katia made it to the US. She was immediately admitted to a hospital here. Seizure medication, surgery, food. Food. Katia doubled her weight and grew four inches in 4 short months. Her blind eyes began to see. Casts shaped her legs, slowly, so they could bend. Her hair grew out and she has a mother to do it up in bows. She has three siblings always darting in to kiss her. She has a daddy to hold her. Now she is no longer a unwanted orphan child. She is someone’s daughter. The change is very visible. She is beautiful.
Every time I talk to Katia’s mother, Heather, or see a photo of this little girl, I think, “I came so close to giving up.” I had spent many endless days–months–trying to advocate for her and find her a family. For the longest time, it had come to nothing. I wondered within if I should give up. But I didn’t. I thank God I didn’t, for my words finally reached a family. I think that nothing in the world feels as good as knowing that you changed someone’s life. That you, with perseverance, helped a child leave a place where they were destined to live a life in a crib. I’m trying to say this in a way that doesn’t sound like I’m trying to collect credit for myself, because I’m not. I just want to say that anyone can make a difference…even a 14-year-old girl with Ukrainian soil on her feet who decides, “God wouldn’t want this child to die without hope. I can’t wait around for someone else to speak for her when I’m supposed to.” I wasn’t anyone special. I just knew that Katia deserved to have a childhood like I had had. It took a lot of time, effort, love and, most if all, a lot of God’s help. The point of this post is that teens can make a difference and that includes you. You can change someone’s life. All you have to do is try. Go for it.
Want to help a Ukrainian orphan? Yuri, a seven-year-old boy, is being adopted from Katia’s orphanage. I met him while I was there and he was the sweetest child. I was able to find him a family only recently and they are trying to raise funds so that they can bring him home. Visit the following link and consider donating to his adoption fund: Hope for Yuri.
Have you ever seen before and after photos like this? (I haven’t!) How does this story touch your heart?
TW “Tween Writer” Wright
/ November 22, 2013This is such a wonderful story, Leah!! Thanks for sharing!!
This story inspired me most because teens can do things too. They don’t have to sit around and wait until they can adopt kids after they’re married, but we can do things NOW.
Leah E. Good
/ November 23, 2013Thanks TW.
And I think you pretty much encapsulated the mission statement for TIO right there. 🙂
Jennifer Worch
/ November 24, 2013Thank you so much for sharing stories like these. It was McKennaugh’s blog post about Yuri and Viktor that opened our hearts for these children. We’re in the process of adopting Yuri now. Don’t stop sharing stories like these–you never know how God could use you. 🙂
Leah E. Good
/ November 25, 2013Thank *you* for going after Yuri! And thanks for stopping by.
sara lemon
/ January 9, 2015It’s nice to see our teens making a difference in the lives of special need orphans.thank you!